I'm the kind of guy that will be happy to treat you like a lady. I am not into, nor will I tolerate, BS. I will be 100% honest and expect the same in return. I must be 100% discreet, and also expect the same from you.
I am in an affectionless relationship. There isn't even so much as holding hands or snuggling in front of the tv, much less sex. Speaking of which, my favorite activity is giving oral.
Sex does not necessarily have to happen the first time we meet or any other specific time. Just snuggling with a nice woman and talking would be very pleasureable. I really would like to feel special to someone who is willing to be satisfied with a no-strings relationship, however long it may be. The first thing I usually notice about a woman is her hair. I am especially attracted to ladies who dress in a feminine manner. "Chicks" who carry their brains in their bra are a definate turnoff.
Sexy is about attitude and demeanor, not bust size, body size or shape, etc. Many times a sexy fully clothed woman is more of a turn on than someone shallow in a string bikini.
Not required, but oh so nice, is a woman who appreciates that stockings are so much more sultry than pantyhose.
What I am looking for...
If you want to keep it real simple: Discrete, Confident, and Clean.
A little more complex: A sexy woman. Sexy, as I define it, relates to a per's attitude, demeanor and they way they present themselves.
Must own, and use regularly, a toothbrush. Good Peral hygiene is a must. Age, body composition, figure measurements are not a concern. Femininity is a strongly desired attribute. I consider this to be a lady who owns and wears a dress once in awhile and one who applies makeup in good taste. No drugs. I don't do them, I don't want to be around them. If you like vintage-style lingerie I may grovel at your feet.
I will respond to all hotlistin, flirts, and winks from regular members I am interested in. If you don't hear from me in a week, I am not interested.
To save numerous additional people the trouble of writing to me...My choice is to be involved with a woman of my own race. This is not to say I am a bigot, it is just a preference. As well, I want to be with women at least close to my age. For me that probably means at least 40, but it is [U]slightly[/U] flexible for the right per.
While I am all negative, I do not wish an arrangement that requires extensive travel. So if you are in Canada, Belgium or even Los Angeles, please don't waste your time contacting me unless you will be in this area in the near future. And last, but most definately not least, I have absolutely no desire for a pre-op tranny! If we meet and I find that out you will not need a surgeon, but you may still need a doctor!
My Ideal Person Please see above.
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
To be picked up and seduced by a travelling lady and taken
to her hotel room until she has to rush off to catch her plane.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rimming, Fetishes, Role Playing, Massage, Lingerie, especially retro
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each, Personality attractiveness
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Fact, not fantasy. In an accidental encounter. The turn
on was the "regular person" attitude and demeanor. Just genuine, mutual attraction.
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.